So, in this blog I am not going to talk about the Chicago Bulls or me moving to Australia. But this past weekend I went home to be with my grandmother in the hospital and it really made me just reflect on life. In life, you can feel so good that you are as high as a G6 flying at 30,000 feet, but with the drop of a dime it can change and drop you back to ground zero.
It has been 4 years since I lost my grandfather. I can honestly say he was the person that molded me to be the man I am today. Growing up he was my father figure and taught me everything from soccer to even how to get girls. He has been my inspiration to succeed today and there isn't one day that pass that I do not think about him. He is the perfect example of how life can change in a instant. In Nov. of 2007, he was diagnosed with liver cancer and by Jan of 2008 he passed away. It took me awhile to finally realize that I just lost one of the most important people in my life.
But after my reflection, it really do makes me appreciate the people I have in my life. I am very grateful that I always had a friend that was there to lend a hand to pick me up when I am down. And that is why I told myself no matter who it is if anyone ever needs someone to talk to I will always be available. Because I feel that we all go through the toughest of times but it is the people in our lives are the ones who helps us prevail.
"As we are liberated from our own fears, our presence automatically liberates others."
RON WONG
Ron, it definitely gets easier to be there for someone else when you can understand their loss, but sometimes it can be hard to reach out to another person when you need. If you need someone to talk to let me know. Sad to say that I probably have too much experience with family health issues and death for a 20 year old, but I would like to think that those experiences help me, help others.
ReplyDeleteI really do appreciate it Devon. I understand what you mean. I have always been there for all of my friends and will always be willing to offer the shirt off my back. But I have lost a lot of friends and through out the years but it only makes me a stronger individual in the end. And it is good to know that I have another hand extended when I need it most. And I thank you Devon
ReplyDeleteRon - I really hope your grandma's alright. I understand your feelings as well - my grandpa died last week, which is why I haven't been in class the last couple weeks. (He was actually my great-grandpa, but growing up with someone for 21 years, it's hard to tell the difference). It does make you appreciate the people you still have around, but it doesn't really make you miss them any less. Thanks for sharing your story.
ReplyDeleteHey Ashley,
ReplyDeleteThanks for replying to the post. It is def. hard I remember when I lost my gpa that I would skip school and went to work instead because at the time it was the place where I found peace of my own and even there I was still crying in the backroom. But it is def. hard because I have some health issues of my own and that is why sometimes I can't help but to reflect on life and all the things and people I have in my life
Aw Ron, I am really sorry this is happening. It's just a part of life which is why everyone should embrace what they have while they have it. Sometimes we get so caught up in our everyday living that we forget what is truly important; great friends and of course, family. I hope everything works out for the best in your situation. You seem like such a good person. And if all else fails, we still have Cummins' corn beef hash to fall back on. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Liz,
ReplyDeleteI always try to be nice to everyone because life is too short to hate or dislike. But if I relied on falling back on Cummins Corn Beef Hash I would die seriously lol
Hey Ron,
ReplyDeleteI've known you for a few years now and I know that you have a lot of good friends that can help you through this, myself included. We're all pulling for ya.